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We keep telling ourselves to hold ourselves together: to believe and to trust. But how we become who we are is caused by the mark of an uncurable ache that is always with us all our lives. I am questioning the root and the solution of loneliness and fear and how to avoid them.  

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1.     People are listening to each other. 

 

Learning how to listen should be the first lesson for all. 

In order to get rid of loneliness from the world, everyone should try to listen to other people's thoughts.Only by listening can we be listened to and feel to be listened to, and we can have empathy and a sense of belonging. 

People believe they are different to everyone, but if fact they are mostly the same. 

To listen is to respect human existence. If everyone loves others as they love themselves, they will love themselves as they love others. There will be no bullying, no exploitation, no discrimination, no war in the world. Even though there are different civilizations in the world, and there are many languages and culture, nothing can't be achieved by learning and understanding. 

 

2.     Women do not have to suffer health problems caused pregnancy and labour. 

 

The uterus should be allowed to be separate from the female body. This can eliminate the displacement of female existence by the concept of the uterus. 

Recently, lambs have been successfully and controversially bred in artificial uteruses. Experts say that the realization of artificial uterus can eliminate workplace discrimination and ensure equal wages. In my opinion, this first guarantees women's right to choose their life without risking their health as the price. Pregnancy and childbirth can cause irreparable harm to women's bodies and increase the risk of potential diseases. I hope that the physical and mental health of a mother who needs to bear another life after giving birth will be protected. 

 

3.     All the people who haven’t had the chance of being educated can have more access to History, Politics and Philosophy. 

 

The basis of a class system between people is the gap of information equivalence. There are sources of civilization and accumulation of culture in history and there is a theoretical basis for the need for dialogue and debate in philosophy. Politics is the most closely related and constantly updated speculative process. On the basis of all the knowledge reserves of these three subjects, people should have the possibility to debate equally and plan for the future together. 

 

4.     An examination for parenting.  

 

Parents' qualification certificate needs to be obtained by taking several basic courses. The course includes the basic knowledge needed to become a parent and an updated list of expectations collected from different age groups. Each course needs to take a simple test to ensure that knowledge is absorbed. Courses related to life safety are compulsory and must pass. Other courses are optional. After obtaining enough credits, people can get the certificate to be a parent. 

 

At  the time when someone want to be parents, he/she can take part in basic courses. If no one in a family obtained the certificate before their child is born, this family must receive return visits and social assistance. If none of the family members can pass the compulsory courses and refuse social help, their children should be raised by other relatives who have qualification certificates. If there are no relatives who are qualified and willing to raise their child, children should be raised by society and can enter the adoption system.